Watching cams models perform live sex shows is undoubtedly an amazing experience. It’s extremely sexually satisfying on so many levels.
To get the most out of live sex, you need to be able to chat with the performer while watching. In the past, we’ve talked about a few good sex chat websites where you can do this. However, lots of people don’t actually know how to properly talk to their partner and make moves during a live show.
But why is it important to be able to make moves during a live sex show?
Let’s compare it to picking up women. Smooth talkers are a lot more likely to be successful getting a date. Being able to feel out your partner is the key to complete sexual gratification, and you can’t do this unless you know the right way to act!
We’ve created a 5-step guide on how to properly talk to your partner during a live sex show so you can get the complete experience.
Let’s assume you already have sex cam site picked out. For this example, we’ll use our own Girls Section on Flirtlu.
First things first, you need to find a cam model who you’re physically attracted to. Browse the online broadcasters and pick out one that fits the bill.
Next, go into their chat room to say hi, and just start chatting about the first thing that comes to mind. Seriously, talk about almost anything! Try to avoid being rude though because you don’t want to make a poor first impression.
What you’re trying to do here is get a grasp of whether you might be compatible with the person you’re talking to. If sex is on your mind, then it might be important to know whether a particular cam model is dominant or submissive. Keep talking for a while and when you’re ready, move onto step 2.
Now it’s time to slap that big “Start Sex Show” button and take your cam model into private.
That way the two of you can have some privacy to continue talking and inevitably, get naughty! For this step, it’s likely you’ll need to have credits in your account to be able to start private shows. In fact, no matter what live sex site you’re on, it’ll probably be mandatory to have a nice bankroll of credits to spend.
Luckily, some adult chat sites give you credits for free that can be used on your first live sex show.
If you’ve followed the steps properly so far, then you’re both probably warmed up to each other at this point. In fact, it’s likely that the cam model already thinks of you as one of their best partners ever since it’s so common to be rude in this industry.
Now you can actually start to make your moves, or continue talking if that’s what tickles your pickle. Jokes aside, the performer is there to make you feel good, and now that you’ve both become acquainted in a positive light they’ll be a lot more inclined to do their job.
Ask them to do almost anything. Got a fetish? Go for it!
Nothing is too weird unless you’re going down the road of breaking the whole damn platforms terms of service.
But for the most part, just enjoy yourself, which brings us to the most exciting step!
Alright, we’ve reached the peak of the mountain. The primary reason you’ve gone down this path of live sex shows, to get that waterfall rush of a climax!
It’s your decision to pace yourself, but just make sure that you’ve got enough credits so you don’t get unexpectedly cut off.
Be sure to communicate with the broadcaster how you’re feeling because believe it or not, they want to know. Tell them every little sexual detail that’s running through your mind. We’ve said this before, but we’ll say it again, they are there to make you feel good!
After you’ve climaxed, let the mood simmer and take a breather. Even if you’re already finished, you need to make sure the cam model is also reaching their climax. Just like real sex, it’s a team game where you’re both in it together.
Imagine how this cam model who you’ve invested your time to get to know is climaxing because of what you’ve done to them. If that isn’t a good enough reason to hang around for them to finish, I don’t know what is!
To put it simply, say goodbye in a polite, but not an abrupt way.
After the climax, it may feel right to go ahead and leave the private sex chat. For the most part, that’s the next logical step, but don’t leave too fast! You and the cam model just had a seriously intimate moment. If you ever want to come back and do another live sex show with that performer, then leaving the private chat too quickly could be taken rudely.
Think of it like a one-night stand. Sliding out of bed and leaving before your partner wakes up in the morning is pretty rude. Wouldn’t it be better to stay for breakfast so you guys could potentially hook up again?
Now, it’s not necessary to drag out your farewells. Instead, just politely say goodbye to each other, then go ahead and exit. That’ll be a great way to leave each other on good terms.
Hopefully, you’ve learned something about how to maximize your experience while sex chatting. Now it’s time to get out there and test your new skills!
Check out this list of the Top 5 Sex Chat Rooms to Flirt Online for some great websites to experience a live sex show.
Interested in learning more about the best ways to treat models while sex chatting in private shows? If so, this guide on Flirting with Cam Girls the Right Way should be your next stop!